Many years ago when Wendy started growing daffodils I remember reading several articles which suggested that when making a cross between two cultivars, the choice of which to use as the seed parent and which as the pollen parent was highly significant. Using cultivar A instead of B as the seed parent would guarantee for example a much greater number of progeny which were of Division 1 proportions than if it was used as the pollen parent. Later I listened to (and read) Peter Brandham decrying this and saying that it made no difference since in both ways half the chromosomes from each of the parents were present in the progeny irrespective of the choice of seed parent. However can anyone explain the following, or perhaps direct me to the source of a written explanation.
For the past five years I have been crossing narcissus species to get miniature cultivars. I keep detailed records of when the seed emerges and then in subsequent years the date when the shoots emerge through the soil. All the crosses are grown in an unheated greenhouse. In 2014 I made a number of crosses between a very vigorous Narcissus bulbocodium which I had found at Baragem de Santa Luzia and Narcissus lusitanicus also from Portugal. The crosses were made both ways on the same day. The seeds were planted in identical pots, in the same mix of compost and have been grown in the same bed in the greenhouse. The three pots of seed with Narcissus bulbocodium as the seed parent started to germinate on the seventh, tenth and fourteenth of November (remarkably consistent). Two pots of selfed Narcissus bulbocodium germinated on the fourth and twelfth of that month. Two months later there is no sign yet of germination of the two pots where Narcissus lusitanicus was the seed parent. I am not particularly concerned since none of my triandrus crosses have yet germinated, though Narcissus lusitanicus is a very early flowerer and flowering size bulbs are almost ready to burst their buds.
Question? If as Peter Brandham alleges there is no difference between the progeny whatever the seed parent, what is the mechanism that allows the seed to remember which was the seed parent? Will the two different progenies flower at the same time?