From Flower and Vegetable Plant Breeding by Leslie Watts:
Anthers and stigmas appear very similar to one another at the time when emasculation should be practised i.e. in the young bud stage when flower colour is becoming recognizable, and great care must be exercised. The three stigmas on the top of the style tend to intermingle with the similarly coloured anthers and are vertical in the bud stage, later opening out and becoming receptive. Anthers tend to resist being detached, but if one of the stigmas is pulled by mistake the extra resistance makes the error quite obvious. Cross-pollinations should be made as the flower reaches the opening stage.
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